Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Oh the Places You Will Go
Posted by Jen & Bill at 9:46 AM 4 yellow bricks
Thursday, April 12, 2007
7 months....
Posted by Jen & Bill at 9:01 AM 3 yellow bricks
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Referrals are in!!!
For a stinking two days. Yes they only matched 2 days. The end of October and November of 2005 are suppose to be very large. People say they still matched the same number of referrals it is just that there are a large number of people waiting with these LIDs. That doesn't help us feel any better.
I'm also tired of hearing "it will be worth the wait". I'm sure it will be but again it doesn't help now. We didn't plan on a 28 month wait.
So what are we doing to shorten it? Well we filled out our agencies medical checklist for special needs. There are certain minor needs that we could handle plus we are open to a boy so maybe we can be matched via their waiting child program. We are persuing the waiting child program through our agency so according to China we are still in the non-special needs track. We just have to wait and see.
Also we are now looking into Ethiopia as option. The waiting times are much quicker but the program is very new and who knows how stable. We are going to take the next month or so and research this option.
Posted by Jen & Bill at 9:08 AM 3 yellow bricks
Labels: referrals
Friday, April 06, 2007
I know this is suppose to be about adoption but...
I couldn't resist.
Check this video out...
My Aunt Jane knows more than my RE
RE means Reproductive Endocronologist (aka infertility doc).
Posted by Jen & Bill at 4:41 PM 5 yellow bricks
Wednesday, April 04, 2007
Waiting for Referrals is like a late Period
Well it is getting to be that time of the month. And no I'm talking about my period. It is the time of the month when referrals come in. Well they are late. They have been referring towards the end of each month/first couple days of the next month. What does this do to people?
Well if this was a period.....what happens when you are late with your period. Well if you have been trying to get pregnant, you get very anxious, very excited, cannot concentrate, and take every pregnancy test known to man. When you pee on the stick, what happens, it is negative and then your period starts. Well that has been the story of my attempts to get pregnant. Or even worse you get a positive, then you get a "period". What the hell. How do you even react to that? By taking more tests, drinking or enhaling water, then pee again 10 minutes later. Only to find out that you either had a bad test, or you had an early miscarriage.
Well the fact referrals are a day or two late, it is driving everyone on the boards crazy. Even though it is not our turn, what happens now affect us in the future. So you get very anxious, very excited, cannot concentrate and you check every email or Rumor Queen multiple times a day. The Rumor Queen board is like a pregancy test.....you check (the pee), they then say yep referrals are on the way (the positive test), then you wait (drinking of the water), then you go back to the board (pee again), find out that referrals are not coming (nope not pregnant).
Posted by Jen & Bill at 9:52 PM 5 yellow bricks